Our belief is that anger is our response to outside stimulus. Consider this scenario where someone does something or behaves in a certain way that you do not approve of. Your reaction is that you do not like that and you get angry. Why ? Because you want that person to behave or do as you like and you do not like his way. In a job, that can be understood but in any relationship it is CONTROL. We can deny but really that, is what it boils down to.
Control is the root cause of tension and stress in Life. Very hard to acknowledge and hard to control. It comes off Greed. It works as long as one is in a powerful position.
Change is a natural process and time does come when change takes place and the controller loses all power and is in a very pathetic position. No one comes forward to help and is very miserable and often spends the rest of life, alone, sad and in depression.
Now is the time to realise this and take care of your future. Control also brings all that anger brings along ( please read the post, The Gifts Anger Leaves Behind ).
Giving up controlling is freedom which is very relieving and gives great relief. In some cases we have to control for example in parenting but one can get much better results with compassion and love. It takes time but it is time worth spending no matter how busy one is.
It is worth thinking, one get the same result as controlling and anger but without, costing any relationship, loneliness, disease for FUTURE . There is a bonus of less defiant child and long lasting relationship. We do not like to be controlled, why control other beings ? No one escape payment. It has to be made, sooner or later that is THE LAW OF NATURE.
Control is the root cause of tension and stress in Life. Very hard to acknowledge and hard to control. It comes off Greed. It works as long as one is in a powerful position.
Change is a natural process and time does come when change takes place and the controller loses all power and is in a very pathetic position. No one comes forward to help and is very miserable and often spends the rest of life, alone, sad and in depression.
Now is the time to realise this and take care of your future. Control also brings all that anger brings along ( please read the post, The Gifts Anger Leaves Behind ).
Giving up controlling is freedom which is very relieving and gives great relief. In some cases we have to control for example in parenting but one can get much better results with compassion and love. It takes time but it is time worth spending no matter how busy one is.
It is worth thinking, one get the same result as controlling and anger but without, costing any relationship, loneliness, disease for FUTURE . There is a bonus of less defiant child and long lasting relationship. We do not like to be controlled, why control other beings ? No one escape payment. It has to be made, sooner or later that is THE LAW OF NATURE.
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