Thoughts By Param

Zero is nothing in life. Life is full of lots of valueless nothings. We look at a person who has achieved success in carrier, relationships of life and envy him/her for he looks calm, success and at peace. What is his secret ?  Perhaps lots of inheritance and good luck.  We sigh!  Wishing, we were lucky like him too. In reality, his secret is that he has figured out to put nothing, the zeroes, together with one with hundred percent focus to create value. He fashions all spheres of his life in this way.  Inherited money does help but dwindles to zero in no time without the secret.  Adding value to zeros around you brings the inspiration and awareness of ONE, the belief, in the primary force of life. The persistence and complete focusing transforms to makes millions in the monetary sense or in awareness of opportunities which start appearing when zeroes sit with ONE. Sometime I notice, especially with the younger generation especially with less experience even,...

Meditation means paying undivided attention.  It is paying FULL attention to what ever you are doing AT PRESENT. Doing so helps one to BE SUCCESSFUL AT WORK, BUSINESS, PARENTING. REDUCING STRESS, BE HEALTHIER AND PEACEFUL.  The other bonus of living in PRESENT  with undivided attention is it opens up unimaginable doors of opportunities.  Meditation is living in one tense," PRESENT."  No memory of past or fear of failure in future hanging with you.  The minute you allow the past or the future to creep in, your thoughts are shattered , your focus is disturbed and, you walk towards disappointments, stress and pain. One focus leads to Gratitude Living which is icing on the cake, for life is enriched further with beautiful bonuses. Such living naturally gears one towards the relaxation meditation or spiritual meditation.  Spiritual meditation is being one with your innermost spirit or God. If you understand meditation as above then one can slip into rela...

Our body weight is dependent on the food we consume.  The amount of food we consume depends on our emotional state. I am considering the effect of anger on our body. When we are angry we are unbalanced, for our mind is upset, brewing with all kinds of retaliation schemes to get even for, we cannot accept that another person should get away by hurting our EGO. We care for this ego far more then anything else in our life.  Sometimes we are willing to stake the whole life for a single word that insulted our Ego. In the unbalanced state our digestive system slows down drastically for body is so tense that all the necessary ingredients to digest the food are unable to flow in this tense state. The blood flow is rationed for all the energy is needed to for the vital organs of the body. Some people just keep eating when they are angry for it is an easier thing to do and hence they put on extra weight.  Getting angry is like a fashion thing to display power over others....

Health and beauty is the dream of young and old alike.  Probably the only commonality left. It is very hard for most of us to loose for we have given our mind free license to do as it wishes.  We gain weight because we are not tuned in to eating. We eat on the go for we are short of time. You are asking your stomach to do a job that it is not equipped to do. In rush you literally swallowed your food in huge pieces.   Can you  build a house if you are have no clue and equipment to do that job.  Every time you are not paying attention to your eating this is what you are demanding, unfairly of your stomach.  Or you are so tense and uptight that along with huge pieces of food you are holding the stomach tight from all sided and then telling it to work. How brutal are we and then we want to look healthy and beautiful, handsome all the time! These and few more are the reasons, we gain weight, which in turn upsets us, makes us unhappy for we always want to look n...

If you are new to this blog then you might want to know that on September 14th 2015,  I had corneal transplant, a gift of vision was given to me for my blind eye by an anonymous person who died and left a preregistered wish to donate. Or, a family with a magnanimous heart, lost a dear one but, had the strength to overlook their grief at the time and made arrangements so that eight recipients like me, in need of organs and tissues could have transplants within hours of the deceased. I am eternally grateful to them for this kindness of theirs. As a result of this transplant I have some vision already and will know the rest when the sutures come out in a years time by September, 2016. It is a long healing period, painful and uneasy for a whole year but this pain is so minuscule compared to the loss of my donor's family. Cornea is the front part of the eye through which the images go inside enabling one to see. I had to go through the fourth transplant because the previous times...

Whatever we achieve in life is the result of our belief. May be we were not conscious of it but we did believe in it for it to happen. The belief comes from our experience and thought and life energy residing inside the physical body. The conscious awareness of this power works in bringing success beyond our imagination. There is another mega benefit of this awareness.  We begin to understand that this energy exists in all creatures. Our thinking focus moves from self to Universe creating, an empathy for all others and leading us to the path of oneness.  Slowly the ego also changes it's thinking and works with you, to serve and benefit all.  The catalyst for this behaviour is born from the gratitude we feel for whatever and however little we have achieved so far. The life energy serves us all the time.  I do not recall where I first heard or read this that , the blessings are flowing all time even when we are sad. In sadness we become so fatigued  that we ...

We always think of happiness and fun in future.  Our thinking goes like this : when I make lot of money, life would be fun, when I get a job, life would be fun when  i finish my degree, life would be fun, when i find my soulmate, life would be fun, when my kids grow up life, would be fun ........ One day, I wake up find my self alone, tired and no fun either! I did multitasks, mostly did three plus people jobs single handed, so that we will have time later WHAT HAPPENED ? TIME PASSED.  Time passes because, time DOES NOT STOP  ticking for anyone ...... and you missed out. This is how our years pass by and all of a sudden we are left alone with plenty of time. malfunctioning body parts and lots and lots of spare and alone time on our hands, Present Time is the only time that matters. Value and respect this  moment before it slips by. Enjoy the present company. Respect and Honor,  the present time, present health and present blessings !