Thoughts By Param

             End of Year is approaching, and one thinks what progress has been made in Life!

We can read, great stuff, all we want. It does not do us any good.  Until we are able to employ and use it for the betterment of our lives and of  those around us.  The greatest challenge of life is to be happy and give happiness to those around us. Time is now to fix things for the future.  Otherwise, we will be just as dissatisfied about our  life as our parents and their parents were.  Feeling empty towards the later part of life! Even their eyes  seemed so unlit!  Look into the eyes of people. Your company, even a few moments of undivided attention can do wonders! Human being seeks other being's pleasant company, not their gifts and money. Brighten someone's day.

Disappointments in life are due to expectations! We seem to think that expectations are our right. If our present life is the result of our previous life karma then expectation do not seem to be  right.  Even if you do not believe in Karma theory, expectation seems to be an open invitation to disappointments.  Life changes amazingly when you let go of expectations. I was going through some physical pain consistently. The pain left me exhausted and I needed help often. Soon I realized that waiting to be waited upon causes irritation.  I expected because I do for others. This was my ego speaking!  Once I realized this, I got up and helped myself as much as I could. It was an effort but the empowering thought  was, it is for my own good, physically, emotionally, for the atmosphere around and keeps the karmic account positive. Try it today as experiment.  Go about your life dealing with someone without a single expectation. Be it spouse, children, co-worker or a friend. Share

Do you really know your self. Have you ever spend time on trying to find out that what you want is a copy of somebody else. Look at your self. Are you happy with what you have become!  You do know that there is no other in this world who is your true copy. God did not make doubles.  You spend so much time knowing others. Give yourself some time. Look into the mirror search. Look into your inside that you do not expose to others.  You might be surprised! AMind is our mirror, it reflects who we are in reality Ignoring it, we never improve, but sink more into duality (doubt)

On September 14, 2015, you left me the gift of eyesight. On September 15th  it was sewn into my eye to give me sight It was an amazing feeling, you gave me hope and some sight Two years later, I felt the darkness again, the doctor confirmed I had lost sight It was a sad day.  I  felt I have failed and disappointed my four donors,  I sat with a very heavy heart.    After a couple of days, I realized I cannot and will not give up! Not just like that! The doctor had given me a three-month  appointment. At that time she would decide what course to take.  I have this time on my hands!  Giving up is not my style! I have to try! I give sessions on better living.  I share with people, ways to assist in their healing powers by working on their,  physical, mental and emotional well being. This   was my test and I must try to do something. I researched all I could do and worked and worked through exercise, food, a

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Every person that walks through our life is there for a reason To teach, learn, collect their debts, pay dues during life's season

Five Virtues of People Living Better Life 1. They compare themselves to fish that cannot survive   without water  and so connect with water at all times. 2. They do not let blame takeover life instead seek       alternatives. 3. Doubt is not in their dictionary. 4. GRATITUDE  is their mantra 5. Serving others is a grace bestowed on them, an opportunity, for which they are humbly grateful.

 Most people wonder,why is there so much misery in our world! Now imagine, the negativity this thought creates each day!  It is so easily done by all of us every day. Is this the world we want to make for our grandchildren or children. How can we create something more pleasant?  Simple, by giving more gratitude. I hear all those badly disappointed. You are right, but will you like your dear ones to give up and do nothing! I do not have resources and neither am I High Tech savvy. I am a simple and so are my ideas. Here is the idea. When more people get up and be grateful for the first FIVE minutes for anything and every thing their eyes see, experience giving gratitude the world will turn. I hear those People saying, nothing exciting happens to give gratitude.  Try it. This is how I do.  When the eyes open and I am able to see with my good eye, I Thank God.  As I take the covers off I thank for the working arms. As the feet touch the floor, I thank for the floor, ho

When fear takes over, disappointment exhausts, sun still rises, your lungs still rise with the power of magical life!  You may not think so for depression has overpowered you. Look!  Look in the mirror, there is some sign of life in you! Hang on to it! It is the oar that will make you swim, through this rough time. It is the sign that you are still supported by the MOST POWERFUL, hold on to the oar with trust. The best is in you, do not fear the rest. Put your trust in ONE. ONLY YOU CAN GIFT THIS TO YOURSELF!

Complementing is good it lightens the heart and eyes We try very hard but sometimes it does not sound wise How can you bring yourself to be at the pure place of total admiration Afterall there is no ego or shame in sincerely acknowledging HIS Creation After mulling over this thought, came out with this suggestion. Only on leaving inappropriate desire, anger, greed, ownership or possession, and ego We are able to the compliment which is devoid of any suggestion but only pure admiration

Did you have the luxury of making your bed today? You will have the luxury of sleeping well at the end of the day This is nothing new, we were taught as children to do it each day                                  WHY? Starting a day with a task done is psychologically a big booster for the rest of the day. It is a big assurance that at the end of the day you will be lulled into sleep on a smooth bed. The thought that you started with a task done and God willing you might end the day well too. A    minor thought but think of the days when your day was rough and preparing for bedtime your thoughts go, " I wish I could just plunk myself and go to sleep." You look at your bed and it is all wrinkled up and you really do not have the desired the energy to even plump up your pillows. Life throws in such days! Life feels good with a little luxury. It is an automatic booster for the rest of the day. You feel you are an independent person, with the ABILITY to do sm

The branch looses it's strength as it ventures away from the main root. We also loose our strength as we move into the world away from our Creator.  Only that geting full attention gets the results. Proof is visible when we study with full attention, we do get the true result. We can get stronger by giving full attention to our weak points until they regain their strength.   Even after, we have to have a timetable to give, regular periodic attention to maintain them . This is called balance and none can survive without that.  Such is the story of our body, our brain and our life.  3 points to truly connect with the Creator. 1) The road to this achievement through humility, arising from the roots -  depths of our heart. 2) Forgiveness branching out to reach all in all  directions from the main trunk with every cell.  3)True  Sweetness in our words - fruits. 

Father’s day Remembering  the first man, our fathers in our lives Who loved us even more than their dearest wives The strongest, bravest, who bowed down to  tie our she laces and ties Thank you for your love and hugs, you always live in our hearts and eyes

Where is the mind? In the body! Power of life is in the mind. Felt when truth is both, the subject and object of our mind. Letting go and forgiveness blooms leaving all stress behind.