Thoughts By Param

Purpose of life Creating pleasantness, peacefulness and bliss is the purpose of every being's life How? By greeting the soul of another being. When the eyes acknowledge another being. The head bows. the eyes take a longer blink. At this moment send a blessing from your third eye to their third eye Your  ego, the " I" will disintegrate, moving out of your path to let you create pure pleasantness.

How I understand Unconditional love A topic very hard to comprehend. Why, because we always have this idea that love brings happiness.  I think love does not seek payment. True love is a condition, a state one goes into when a being thinks of the source of its love. One will give and go on giving because that is love for that person. This love is rare and could exist in any relationship, between any two beings. I believe it is what is called Oneness relationship. One has to realize and form a relationship with oneself and the Creator of life force first,  to experience this.

Growing up we were always told to think, contemplate then act. After many years the meaning of those words dawned and why in that order also made sense. When the thought first occurs with the help of the senses, we have another function to perform, which is to contemplate on that thought. But we usually skip that and act on the thought directly. We could save ourselves a lot of heartaches a pain by pausing. Also during the contemplation part, we do hear a feeble sound from within telling us not to go ahead.  We ignore this voice and go ahead at the time. Later, it dawns on us that voice was trying to save us.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fkUkBecF874

I want to share with you how someone I know and barely makes ends meet is helping out a family that has lost everything in the recent hurricane and is living in a makeshift tent in Dominica. Her kids are still in one of the islands. Their island escaped the natural disaster. This morning she asked me if I had old towels and sheets that I could spare. Upon inquiring, she told me that she has personally rented two large barrels for $55 each and is filling up with clothes and non-perishable food for that family. Recently I gave her some used clothes for her daughter.  This big-hearted lady called up her daughter and told her that she had clothes on her back and this family doesn't and has decided to send those clothes to them! What a beautiful soul!  God bless her.  I offered to help out with some clothings, sheets and  non-perishable groceries  She replied, " I will show you the receipt for the containers and get you more information so that you know that ...

Why is meditation so tough!  You are supposed to focus on the Creator that you have never seen. One can feel and recall parental love even when they are no more. Maybe because we cannot visualize 'The One' Heard from the wise elders that some things do not have proof. You get your own proof by connecting the dots. There is an explanation which I have heard over the years and that makes sense to me. The Creator created the world, with laws of action and reaction. Gave us the thought power to design our faith. Our life is our own and it is up to us how we design it. Analyzing this makes one think. What kind of people touch our heart. I would say, who are honest, truthful, loving and giving.  Such people have such a nice, peaceful aura around them. One feels so good in their company and wonders, 'what a beautiful soul they are. ' Guru Nanak preached that we beings are made in Creator's own image.  If the sample is so good one cannot begin to imagine the Creatures virtu...

Most people are not happy to see jury duty summons and so was I, but then I thought, this is a duty call and I owe it to give back, so I went with an open mind. There were hundreds of people and selection was going to take days..... people were very quiet, busy with their texting or whatever....  this could be boring I thought.  I said that to the lady beside me and the one from the row before us turned around and voiced her opinion and few more joined voicing their opinions.  Generally, people did not want to be there for various reasons.  Why is it that people feel that way.  The general reason was people did not want to decide someone else's fate. It is understandable. My understanding of the jury system is that it was set to look at the opinion of those people who have nothing to do with the law.  It is to make sure all concerned are dealt fairly.   What if our loved one was on the stand.  Wouldn't we w...

Some give to live My donors of sight live on even after they give...... Last week was the anniversary when my sight came on I tried writing about those beautiful souls who had given me sight and then moved on. I could not find words, that can thank them enough for their generosity.  Someone stopped me to compliment last week for my eyes. I replied saying, I can take credit for one, the owner of other is long gone. Astonished, am I, how true giving lives on. God bless them and their families for THEIR BIG HEARTS! I am a four-time recipient. My blog on Sept 14 and 15, 2015 has the details of my heroes, if you are interested.

Everyone wants that people should listen to them. We deliver advice, saying it is in good faith. How cheeky of us because we do get upset when it is not accepted. We should not be upset if it did not come from ego. How can we protect ourselves from such hurt? How much do we change, like really change for others? Is everybody else not in the similar boat! We need to take personal inventory before expecting others to listen to our words. We must think before we say something. Verbal diarrhea does not get attention. Give advice when asked. If as a parent you have to give as a duty than show it as your experience that you went through. Do not expect others to follow. Such scenario keeps everybody's respect intact and people actually think about your words. The moral is, say it to yourself before you deliver to others. Check it out it helps.

The secret of change is to focus all of your energy Not on fighting the old and but on building the New                                                                     -Socrates This makes so much sense. We fail in life because our energy is wasted in stopping the old habit. Personally, this has worked for me. The more I am focused on not doing something, it happened more. I would lose my sleep over it worrying day and night and when I needed the energy during the day, my energy level would be so low that I would make silly mistakes. When I started to focus on the change, things went much smoother. Also, I believe strongly in the law of attraction. If I am positive, the change does happen, might take time but I have achieved many impossible changes in life.

Every second of the day  our acts physically  or in thought decides -- our peace of our mind. We are writing our fate  ALWAYS. Does today feel sad or restless? Analyze your every move up until now. Actually, you don't even need to do that.  Your conscious rings the warning bell  before a crime takes place. Listening to it! It becomes living  IN THE MOMENT.   IT IS THE BIGGEST BLESSING. IT BEGINS WITHIN MIND AS A THOUGHT. YOU CAN CONTROL IT BY BEING MINDFUL. BECOME YOUR OWN MASTER NOW ONWARDS!

Every being is collecting blessings or curses every second of a day. These collections affect his family and his continent in a big way.   Yesterday I was at the Niagara Falls and witnessed both, the entire day.  People were using public facilities and collecting them in a big way.  As I stood in a line I witness ed  the reactions of people as they entered the booths and left them.  Those who got a dry and clean booth came out in a good mood. Their energy was good.  Those who got a wet or filthy booth came out with the disgusting face and looked at all the other people of similar race as the previous user.  Some were very vocal about it.  We know every thought silent or spoken reaches the person known or unknown as energy vibes.  Then there was another incidence where a family sat on the benches in a park to rest their feet .  As the rest of the family sat down their young teenage daughter picked up some garbage on the gr...