How Rushing Ruins Lives of Parents and Children
The day begun with rush is aiming for a crush. In rush, you loose your patience, love, and balance.
A husband shouts for his wants for he has to rush !
A mother/wife's voice escalates with anger to get the kids to wake up and rush!
Now that I see others do that I repent for having created all that fuss in my younger life.
How can the rest of the day be nice if it begins with nothing but rush.
I doubt the husband, wife or the young child, on reaching work or school will be fresh.
Each member contributes toward this, unaware how they are making their lives a big mess.
Mindfulness and awareness of thought and action and the resulting reaction can only save us.
Adults need to be aware for the child, it is their responsibility. Punishing is a temporary fix forget that. In power you can do that but long term you are setting up tense relationship with the child for later years. And the hurt you are creating within that child is creating low esteem and unhealthy child.
Save yourself and the child by changing your way about life.
Become the expert yourself. You can create an optimum life for your family if you become aware and mindful of your daily, routine thoughts and actions.
Let the child bear the natural consequence now instead of pushing them to keep your pride in front of others intact. The lesson learntl now will become his guiding light in the rest of their life.
The day begun with rush is aiming for a crush. In rush, you loose your patience, love, and balance.
A husband shouts for his wants for he has to rush !
A mother/wife's voice escalates with anger to get the kids to wake up and rush!
Now that I see others do that I repent for having created all that fuss in my younger life.
How can the rest of the day be nice if it begins with nothing but rush.
I doubt the husband, wife or the young child, on reaching work or school will be fresh.
Each member contributes toward this, unaware how they are making their lives a big mess.
Mindfulness and awareness of thought and action and the resulting reaction can only save us.
Adults need to be aware for the child, it is their responsibility. Punishing is a temporary fix forget that. In power you can do that but long term you are setting up tense relationship with the child for later years. And the hurt you are creating within that child is creating low esteem and unhealthy child.
Save yourself and the child by changing your way about life.
Become the expert yourself. You can create an optimum life for your family if you become aware and mindful of your daily, routine thoughts and actions.
Let the child bear the natural consequence now instead of pushing them to keep your pride in front of others intact. The lesson learntl now will become his guiding light in the rest of their life.
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