Thoughts By Param

The art of conversation is wearing off. Most people do not want to listen what other is saying. We are all guilty of putting in our two sense as soon as a person starts to speak. Somewhere along the line we lost that, conversation is not to be turned into a personal agenda by either party.  Conversation is information without accusation.  Our opinions can be different, after all two individuals relate to their own experiences. Only a clean , neutral intent can allow a healthy conversation. Modern technology with all its goodness has contributed to the downfall of conversation with the shortening of all words in texting and messages People would rather text then converse. That human aspect is decreasing, the daily dose of human touch and tone of caring. Modern technology has cut the distances of countries but increased distances within family If the other is treated as an equal soul, we can bring our self to listen to them expressing their opinion without making it into ...

Confusion in life is our own creation. We need a fridge for our perishables and at the same time we need a warmer compartment to keep the butter warm. Fancy cars are parked in the driveway while the garbage sits in the garage with security alarm. We tell the kids lying is wrong but when someone asks us in the midst of housework, "what are you doing ?" our reply is nothing !!!! Our confusion is relative to our position in lfe at the moment. NOT to worry even our food and other things are quite confusing too .......

Do you find life boring ? Because it is the same old thing everyday! Think about it next time the thought bothers you .....

As a kid I heard, " babies are physically tiny but they are old souls" decades later It is making sense.  We often judge the new baby's reactions to some people. Why?  Because, beings are not bodies but souls ! Now when I see a parent frustrated with the baby 's reaction I think, this baby just remembered an old unpleasant memory and is reliving it. This applies to people of all ages. The life journey is new but old pain is still there.  We just have to remind the mind it to have compassion for the hurting soul. Young or old we are souls. The mind is always listening.   We can send blessings in the form of prayers. Doing so does not come easy for most because, we have our own personality to deal with but Compassion for others wakes us up. Try it .  It reminds us we all are one, we have the same energy, THE ONE. Refusing to acknowledging this, our journey of life  moves but without much peace in it. Tiny steps, repeated often become habit and the journ...

A beautiful soul a year ago today, passed away and left me a generous gift of sight. I can see almost 80 % ! I see the world better today, because of you! Thank you and your family who did remember in the midst of  their deepest sorrow, grief  and pain to let the doctors take the gifts from your body to be delivered in time to eight recipients waiting, including me. Even though your soul had left the body, most people would want to be with the body as long as possible but they were so generous even  in their sorrow. They send you away so that the doctors could harvest all the gifts in time, to be delivered to different hospitals. My heart is breaking as I write this a year after your death. I wander how they coped with it then! What must have they gone through then !!!!  Thanking you billion times even is not enough for your generosity. God bless you all. You mean a lot more than the sight.  You have become my caretaker friend in sorrow. On an off day I sim...